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The pregnancy was totally unexpected. I wasn't enjoying breastfeeding my DS more often, because I think my milk supply was down. I wasn't looking forward to another c-section and horrible recovery. I had started having morning sickness and was tired of the fatigue. I was hiding the pregnancy from my aunt, who raised me, because I still haven't finished school<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll">. So, when I started bleeding I wasn't terribly heart broken.<br><br>
I have an appt on Thursday and will find out the next course of things. I find myself not wanting to go to the Dr and hear the words, the baby is gone. I find myself going to my DDC to see what others are posting. I'm crying for the baby that would have been<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">, but keep telling myself that it's best that it happened this way. I am so sad, I just feel such a loss.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> mama<br><br>
let yourself grieve it even if it wasn't convenient and it was hard to be pregnant, its still a big loss. Telling yourself its for the best won't help it be easier to say goodbye.
 

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I am so sorry. The pregnancy we lost was an unplanned one as well. The pain feels the same. It is really, really tought.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> mama. Be kind to yourself. Maybe logically it's "for the best" but love and family are not logical. Let yourself feel what you need to feel. You and your baby will be in my prayers.
 

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HUGS Mama
 
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