I think my toddler is weaning

I am sorry you are sad.

You are probably correct in your concern that this isn't her "natural" timetable to wean, but rather imposed upon her by your pregnancy. That said, that is the way it is. She *will* be gaining a sibling. I feel a lot of guilt about the change in my nursing relationship w/DD during my pregnancy w/DS, but at the same time... I did what I could do given the circumstances, and that was all I *could* do.

BUT... she may not wean. Three times a day is still three times a day. You could try to increase your milk supply, you could continue encouraging her to nurse, you could plan on trying to get her to nurse after the baby is born... you really can't tell what will happen now.

We all want "the best" for our children... but what "the best" is can change with time and circumstance. You can try *YOUR BEST* to give DD what you think she needs, but it is not all up to you, kwim?

Good luck & CONGRATS!!!