I've never done anything like this before, I'm confused what to do. I really want to check on him, but I don't want to mess anything up. He is 2 1/2. Lately if my mom or my husband lay down with him for a nap he happily goes along with it. If I do it, he screams and yells and hits and ... just throws a fit. and in the end, I get so fed up after trying (sometimes as long as an hour and a half) that I say forget it.
He started yelling and screaming so I said I'm not willing to participate in this today. Time to take a nap. I left.
Last night 3 yo dd would not go to bed so I left her naked in her room playing and went to bed with ds. (Dh was out with the others.) 20 minutes later she came out naked, hungry, thirsty, sleepy and confused because it was dark and I was in bed.
After a nightgown, a banana, a drink, and some calm toothbrushing she climbed into bed.
Did she think I was kidding when I said goodnight? I was so tired I could not engage in a fight and I am so glad I took the path of least resistance. It was much calmer.
That's why I love my video moniter. LOL. I got it last X-Mas because I knew he was getting to the age where he would start trying to climb out of his crib and get into trouble. I love it. I can peek in on him anytime I want. I know I'll be using it a lot more once he's out of the crib, which will most likely be sometime after the holidays. We'll probably get one in February...although I'm in no rush. LOL.
Originally Posted by StayAtHomeMama21
just came out and said I'm all done sleeping.
argh
DS did that a few times, at about that age, a bit younger probably! (The other times I didn't try to get him to take a nap at all!
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One day I put on some music in his room and he was really into it, so I left the room and he ended up falling asleep lying on the floor (well, carpet) next to the tape player. So cute. He had basically dropped the nap but needed it most days, and that worked a good handful of times.
It's frustrating, but for your sanity maybe it's time to stop trying so hard for him to take a naptime... Maybe try some music, to at least stretch his "quiet" time? For the record, the music that put him to sleep was a Raffi tape.
My mom used to do "quiet time" for us until we went to school. She would put us in the room and say we don't have to nap so long as we're quiet. If we made any noise, we'd have to nap. Seemed like a good deal to me! We would read books and such.
Perhaps some would disagree, but mommies need their sanity time!!! Maybe you can try "quiet time". My 2 1/2 year old is in the process of dropping his only nap and I'm going to need some quiet time.
Some days this works w/ DD1, some days it doesn't, but I think she is getting to the point she won't be napping at all. I'm just happy we read her a story at night, say goodnite, and shut the door. We started working on that just before 2 and I can't wait till we can include DD2 in it.
We do this with our son(20 months). Every once in a while he fights it but most days he will just go right to sleep. He has never been good at having anyone "put him to sleep" he gets too stimulated when someone is around and just needs to be alone. Unfortunately, we have gone through times when he will cry but it's usually after he's been sick(but we make sure he's all better) or after we get back from a trip. He will get a little "spoiled" in both cases and needs to get back to his normal routine. When he was younger we tried so many "methods" trying to get him to go to sleep peacefully...he's just not that kid. We had no choice but to let our bull-headed little boy cry it out....it never lasted longer than like 10-15 minutes though. It was faster than him crying in my arms while I was rocking him.
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