I have a wonderful, inquisitive, intelligent, feisty DD that is almost 3 years and a 9 month old DD. Both require lots of time and attention and it seems I am constantly getting irritated with DD1. She is so quick and always getting into things she shouldn't. We moved recently and are still in the process of toddler proofing the house. She also is testing the limits constantly, especially when it comes to her sister (hitting, pushing, pulling etc.) She is so smart of really such a wonderful girl that I love immensely. I feel terrible that I am always scolding. I am also trying redirection, but I feel tapped out and that I am not approaching each day with her as a joyful one. I want ideas on how to refocus when she has pushed me to the limits (I am also constantly holding the baby as she is very needy in that way). I love being able to stay at home with both of them.