My first baby was a boy... Horrible nausea for the first trimester, wicked awful heartburn and indigestion the rest of the pregnancy. I gained about 35 pounds, but it was all baby belly for the most part... Carried him high. Not a lot of aches, and no emotional roller-coaster stuff. I actually would joke about why they called pregnant women basket-cases... I just didn't get it.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll"><br><br>
My second baby was a girl... Totally different ball game. Cry-baby the WHOLE TIME, always felt like I had been steam rollered as far as aches go. But no nausea or heartburn or anything of that nature... At all. Ever. It was really nice. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"> As far as body goes... I was eating predominately vegan during my second pregnancy and lost close to thirty pounds(I weighed about 165-70 starting out, I'm tallish, not happy with all that weight loss), so it's harder to say. I still carried pretty high, but further out... I think the further out is a second-baby thing, muscle memory and all.<br><br>
Now I am a huge believer in everything that goes on with a person being linked to nutrition. Part of me wants to believe that the hugely varying diets from baby to baby may have had an effect on the different experiences. This is all one big experiment for me... I do traditional foods now... Kind of an amalgam between the ways I was eating in my prior pregnancies. I feel really good actually, only symptoms being mild bloating and breast tenderness(which I had both times before). I want to say I am expecting a girl, as I don't feel nauseous at all, and I had to stop myself from crying tonight while I watched Hidalgo. *haha* But a boy wouldn't be out of the picture... While not nauseous, I've had a few very definite quease-outs over food I generally like a lot. I wanted to eat EVERYTHING with my daughter. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/shrug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="shrug"> I suppose I'll find out in January. I knew intuitively my other baby's genders... But I'm not feeling a solid pink or blue on this one yet. And I think that's fine... I like surprises. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">