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If you moved would you take your plants with you?

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I ask because we will be putting our house on the market in the next month or so and the thought of leaving some of my 'babies' behind is killing me. I wouldn't take everything but I think I'd definitely dig up some of my favorite perennials that were handed down from friends/family, etc. I'm talking specifically about my irises, my black-eyes susans, my daisies, and possibly some tulips.

Is this tacky? I wouldn't be digging them up at an ideal time, right after they begin to bloom (or in the case of the irises already poking up), do you think this would kill them? I thought about digging them up now while they're still semi-dormant but I'm not betting on our house to sell in this market so I don't want to deprive myself of my flowers KWIM? Plus I really have no where to store them properly during the summer.

WWYD? Thanks ~m~
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My understanding when you sell a house is that landscaping plants (in the ground, not in pots) are included in the sale unless the purchase agreement states otherwise. I am not a Realtor but that is what I was told by a Realtor in MN. So you are smart to think through this now and make a decision and then talk to your Realtor about it.

I have pink lily-of-the-valley that I would definitely want to take cuttings from to restart at our new property. I am debating whether I would want a rose bush that was passed down. Everything else here are things that I planted so no long family history, but I am attached to many of them such as my rhubarb, hostas, and alpine strawberries. I am considering inserting a clause in the purchase agreement when we sell our house that I would request divisions of each of those plants.
I would and I did. When my parents sold the house I grew up in I took several plants including hostas, ferns and a 50 year old peony tree. The people who owned the house before my parents had planted a magnificent garden and even though my parents didn't have great gardening skills, I was able to grow up surrounded by wonderful plants. I had to bring some of those memories with me. As for the peony tree - well, my instinct told me it wouldn't be appreciated by the new owners and I was right - they tore the house down and I'm sure destroyed the garden in the process. Now that tree stands proudly in my garden and is an interesting conversation starter when people see it in the midst of my pathetic garden.

I should note that other than the peony tree, the rest of the plants I took were split off of the main clumps so the garden didn't look trashed after I was done with it. You might want to take that into consideration when picking what you are going to take.

Or, if you want the whole clump, just put it down as something that isn't staying with the house. Like how people say certain light fixtures aren't included, you could do that with your plants.

We actually looked at a house where the owner had stated that the hostas were not staying with the house.

HTH
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I think it is fine if you disclose it before the purchase. My understanding is the same as the PP's, that they are considered part of the sale unless stated otherwise.
I would take plants - I agree that you should state that in the purchase info. Many things you can split though, and leave a little so the yard doesn't look trashed. I would definitely take my red currants and raspberries...I've worked too hard for them!
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I close, (hopefully), on our house we're selling next week. I'm going to divide the plants - like sedum, that need divided and take small starts. They're ones I've collected from my in-laws former houses, our former houses, etc. Some are farm petunias that were from my dh's grandfather, and some rose moss from him. Those, I may have enough babies growing in pots, since they're probably not sprouting yet in the ground. If not, I know my MIL has some. This is spring clean-up I would do typically, and I think this will make the yard grow better for the buyers. (Many of the plants got too large last year and need splitting - didn't do much last summer as I was very pg.) You're supposed to leave the landscape plants, bricks, timbers, etc., but I think it's the responsible thing to do to leave the yard the way I would want it left for me. And, I did make sure, when we were negotiating, that they knew I would be taking a few important starts, like I just mentioned. I guess I should have put it in the contract, now that I think about it...

So, I would say, dig up what you want - the heirlooms, and put them in pots. They're not included in a contract. Or, specify in the listing that you will take starts from each plant.
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I divided everything and took the newbies to the new house. As long as you can leave it looking reasonable for the new owner, I think its fine.

One of my houses was bought by a non-gardener. I drove by one day and they had ripped out my whole daylily bed and put down sod. They left the daylilies in the street.. I gave them a lift home. This story still cracks my hubby up.
I would. I've heard lots of stories of people moving in to a house with lovely gardens only to rip it all out or let the weeds take over.
DH and I were just talking about that. We couldn't bear the thought of moving, and leaving behind our blueberries, raspberries and strawberries!!! I'd also take some Hostas, and other perennials I've worked so hard to establish!!
I would. I may be moving across country. I'm not sure of the logistics, but I'd have to bring my plant babies with me. Leaving them behind would devastate me.
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I divided everything and took the newbies to the new house. As long as you can leave it looking reasonable for the new owner, I think its fine.

One of my houses was bought by a non-gardener. I drove by one day and they had ripped out my whole daylily bed and put down sod. They left the daylilies in the street.. I gave them a lift home. This story still cracks my hubby up.
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I drove by one day and they had ripped out my whole daylily bed and put down sod.


I don't understand people. Who would rather have grass than beautiful flowers?
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We bought our house a year and a half ago and it already had a very neglected but established garden. I have tried to save most of the plants here at the new house and I've expanded the garden with more old garden rosebushes (my favorite) and will probably add more.

If we leave this house, my rosebushes and the irises are coming with me. I will replace them with something just as beautiful but I've grown very attached to them and I don't think I can leave them behind.

So here is a funny story..When we bought our condo years ago, as we were doing a walk through of the house, the seller was there and stated they were taking the fireplace mantel, shelving and some of the nicer doors with them. This was our first time buying and we thought it was a joke ala Richard Pryor in Moving. The day of closing came and there was no mantel, no shelves and cheap door replacements.
I would make sure the yard still looked nice, but I would definitely take a clump from most of my plants with me. Particularly my little blueberry bushes, since they came from my grandfather's lovely blueberry patch. And the rose that was my great-grandmother's. And the lilacs my dad bought me. And the irises that my MIL gave me. And my lilies......my lilies would never be left behind! Oh, and the astilbe and bleeding heart bushes. Ugh, despite the need for another bedroom I don't think I want to ever move!
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When my parents put their house on the market Mom specified that the rose bush my brother gave her for mothers day was going with them.
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I would make sure the yard still looked nice, but I would definitely take a clump from most of my plants with me. Particularly my little blueberry bushes, since they came from my grandfather's lovely blueberry patch. And the rose that was my great-grandmother's. And the lilacs my dad bought me. And the irises that my MIL gave me. And my lilies......my lilies would never be left behind! Oh, and the astilbe and bleeding heart bushes. Ugh, despite the need for another bedroom I don't think I want to ever move!

Just build an addition!
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Just build an addition!

We rent or I would! We do rent from family, though, so it may be a future possibility. And as long as we don't have any more kids we'll be ok. It's just that nagging voice in the back of my head that keeps saying it wants to have another child.
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When we moved into our rental 10 years ago there was nothing but sand. Now there are gardens, rock walls, trees (grass of course too LOL), and our beloved veggie garden. We are planning on removing prob. 1/2 of what we put down. We'd like to leave this property in much better shape than when we moved in and still be able to bring samples of the plants that we'ved loved for so long with us. Most of the plants we have can be divided so we're planning on that. The small tree that my dh gave me for my bday will come but prob. not most of the lilacs (maybe one small). I think this falls under the "leave it better than you found it" motto but still taking a piece of your old home with you (respectfully).
The people we bought our house from took some of their plants with them. We did not discuss it in negotiations, but it was not a big deal. They took some of the perrenials, but left most of what was here. Most important to me, they left the peonies, most of the hostas and the asparagus (which we killed in a matter of years). We have changed many of the plantings - added more peonies, took out an always sick rose vine, added wildflowers. But we've tried to reduce grass, which they seemed to like.
for 13 years i lived on the last five acres of my grandparents farm. i put in literally an acre + of flowering plants. when it was time to go (my dad sold the place out from under me, would not consider selling it to me), i took everything. first of all though, i had to make sure i bought a place big enough to accommodate my plants. i was able to get a two acre place. DH and i spent *a lot* of time and energy moving plants. i was also pregnant at the time. it was fall, and we didn't have a lot of time to arrange the plants as we would have liked to; rather he had to rototill strips around the edges of the property, and we sorta "dumped" (planted) there in no particular order.

now, three and a half years later, we are slowly relocating the plants once again, to their "permanent" locations here. the good news is that we have more daffodils than anyone in our neighborhood. they are really looking good. we had "instant gardens" as far as everyone in the neighborhood was concerned. we get a lot of compliments.

as for my old place, it was purchased by a park district and completely torn up. all of the plants would have been destroyed. it was well worth it to move them.

i know some gardeners who took a few special plants when they moved, and figured the rest would work itself out. i have also heard many stories about new owners not appreciating a garden and tearing it all out. personally i think that is fairly common.

if i were you, i would definitely put it in the contract that you are going to have the right to take your plantings when you go. if by some chance, a potential buyer really really likes your gardens and really really wants to keep them, they can still negotiate with you to try to get some of them left behind.

in short my answer to your question of if you should take them: heck yes!
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