I intended to wean at a year. As we progressed and I learned more I aimed for at least 2 years. Now at 16 months I feel so very over nursing. Then I feel guilty for my feelings. We struggled from day one with various problems and issues and she has always been a very active (read backflips while latched) nurser. At this point we are down to a few nursings at night and early am, but I feel so over it. I still have to pump at work because I'm gone for 48-72 hours at a time which I hate. These long absences are all the more reason to extend nursing... but I don't think I can deal much longer.