I'm totally and completely losing my mind. It's 11 pm and my 4 year old and 2 year old are still awake. My 4 yo would go to sleep if my 2 yo would let her. They are both still nursing. I've cut out naps unless it's early and she is desperate for it. Right now they are in the room awake with the lights off. There are no other noises to bug them. Some friends have suggested using melatonin. This week I've resorted to rides in the car for the 2 yo. One night it was 1 am. This is really screwing things up. My 4 yo is sleeping through preschool...well she is waking at 9-9:30 and school gets done at 11 so why bother. I'm always tired because I feel compelled to stay up after their late bedtime to get my mom time. Please help. If I nursed her to sleep it would take hours which pushes me to the edge of abruptly weaning them both.