[hildare]

<p>nothing in the sac at the first ultrasound today. </p>
<p>going to have a d & c sometime this week (by choice, i've btdt with a superlong m/c and i just want to get it overwith) </p>
<p>sticky baby vibes to the rest of the July 2011 babies!  <3</p>

 

[Gismobabe]

<p>I am really sorry, momma! (((HUGS)))</p>
<p>BTW: I btdt as well and I recommend the "abortion pill" - I had to fight for it with the insurance but it happened fast and in my own home.</p>
<p>Sending my love!</p>

 

[Charlize]

<p>I'm so sorry.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I have no experience with D&C or other methods, but I wish you much healing and peace during this hard time.</p>

 

[new2texas]

<p>I'm very sorry for your loss.</p>

 

[tourist.]

<p><span><img alt="hug2.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug2.gif" style="width:38px;height:16px;"></span> I'm so sorry for your loss.</p>

 

[copper.kettle]

<p>I'm so sorry to see you go.  Be gentle with your self.</p>

 

[artekah]

Oh no! I am so very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. Big hugs!

 

[heavensearth]

<p>I am so sorry to hear this *hugs*</p>
<p>Is there no chance that the u/s could be wrong?</p>

 

[lesliesara63]

<p>I am so sorry. I don't blame you for wanting a d&c. I've had three natural m/c and I'd take a d&c if given the choice. Take care of yourself.</p>

 

[no5no5]

<p><span><img alt="hug.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug.gif"></span>  I am so sorry.  <span><img alt="greensad.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/greensad.gif"></span></p>

 

[CLH_X3]

<p><span><img alt="hug2.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug2.gif" style="width:38px;height:16px;"></span></p>

 

[hildare]

<br><br><div class="quote-container"><span>Quote:</span>
<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>heavensearth</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1283881/i-m-out#post_16097638"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>I am so sorry to hear this *hugs*</p>
<p>Is there no chance that the u/s could be wrong?</p>
</div>
</div>
<p><br>
i wish that were the case.. but, we were looking at it and there was clearly nothing at all there.. not only that, but the outline of the sac was somewhat irregular and larger than it should have been.  i knew the instant we saw it, before the doc even said anything.  it looked pretty strange. </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>thanks for the well wishes.  i'm actually doing better with it than i would have expected.  i think it helps to have a little one.  my first m/c, an ectopic, really took an emotional toll, as when it's your first pregnancy it leaves you wondering if you'll ever have a babe.  plus, she's such a monkey I'm not having much time to reflect and be sad. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>good luck to you all, and thanks for the kind words <3</p>

 

[Novus]

<p>I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((Hugs))</p>

 

[reikimama]

<p>I am so sorry.  Sending hugs your way.</p>

 

[lmevans]

<p>I'm so sorry for your loss. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Lots of hugs, prayers, positive thoughts and peace for you. </p>

 

[laketahoemama]

<p>so sorry, mama <span><img alt="hug2.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug2.gif" style="width:38px;height:16px;"></span></p>

 

[SuburbanHippie]

<p>I'm sorry, mama.  Hugs!</p>