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How's that for a pity party invite. I have been working nights and staying awake with my 2 year old during the day. I get about 3 hours of sleep a night. Oh yeah, I'm almost 2 months pregnant. That said, my house looks like a truck went through it , backed up, and went through it again.<br><br>
I didn't have to work last night, so right after dinner I went to bed. I got up this morning and the house was still trashed. DD1 didn't clear the table (her job) or wash the pot and pans (her job). So I start cleaning up the mess. I take the recycling out to the garage and my dh cleaned the garage last night. (He obsesivly cleans the garage)<br><br>
So he can COMPLETELY rearrange and clean the garage but he can't straighten up the living room. I mentioned it to him, and he freaked out. Started yelling at me about how the house is my job and I never do it anyway so why should he. All this in front of the kids, (and he totally knows I hate fighting in front of the kids). So he slams out of the house and calls me from his cell phone to yell at me a little more on his way to work. So I start crying and feel like a total loser because he made me cry.<br><br>
So now he "feels bad" and apologises and gets pissed when i don't say "it's ok"<br><br>
Moving further into the day I realised, today is my wedding anniversary, nice huh.<br><br>
Thanks for listening.
 

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Im so sorry that you feel sh*tty! I know how you feel about the house being a mess and no-one helping out! I was sick for a week (as in sick in bed) a while ago and no-one bothered to keep the house clean and I still havent gotten thru everything <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br><br>
I hope things get sorted out for you! It sounds like you need some "me" time. . .<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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some days are just like that, hope it gets better.<br><br>
peace kathleen
 

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Lots of <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">s to you.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> to you mama! I hope you can enjoy a nice celebration this weekend <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile">, and you know that eventually the house will be clean... don't put so much pressure on yourself, sending you loving and happy vibes!
 

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Is there anyone you know who would come over and play with your kid(s) while you clean? Or clean while you nap? Even if you have to call in favors - mama, do it now.<br><br>
I wish I could help.<br><br>
You'll feel better as that second trimester rolls around, really!<br><br>
Hugs.
 

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Happy Anniversary! (Hope it feels happy or happier soon.)<br>
You really need a break. Wish we could give you one. ((hugs))<br>
(And your truck comment made me laugh- thank you!)
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> i'm sorry. what a rough day. happy anniversary, though.
 
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