my dd 2was born 6 pounds 13 ounces, and wasnt gaining weight like my nurse practitioner wanted, i gave her vaccines until she was 6 months old and then figured out i didint want to do that anymore. DD seemed perfectly healthy and active, but tiny or "dainty", to me she seemed like she was growing because she was growing out of her clothes, and she's got a big pot belly but skinny little legs. I didnt bother taking her to the NP's office because i wasnt doing vaccines and dd never got sick I had no concerns, but to keep up with appearances, i took her in at 17 months for a weight check ect... and the nurse was angry with me when she weighed dd in at 18 pounds and questioned why i didnt bring her in, I told her I wasnt vaccinating and i didnt see the point when dd has no health problems and is an active little girl. She set up an appointment with a ped, and he said she looks healthy and everything and just to bring her back in 3 months to check and see if she still isnt gaining. Anyways the other day i weighed dd2 and she still weighed 18 pounds and i decided to also weigh my oldest whom is 33 months, and the scale said 24 lbs! she weighed that last year and i haven't taken her to the nurse since she was 18 months. but dd1 doesn't look skinny at all but she is short compared to other kids her age and wears size 3 clothes. The nurse told me to take her in for a check up when she turns 3, I'm terrified, if she was mad at me for dd2 not gaining she's going to be furious with me now, and what if she calls cps. I'm so scared <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> I got nothing to hide my house is always immaculate, besides when they're playing with there toys, and the fridge is always stocked with food, Should i be worried??