Mothering Forum banner

1 - 15 of 15 Posts

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,006 Posts
Discussion Starter #1
This morning I get woke up by a group from the church down the road at my door. I kindly talk to them and do their little survey. But then the older man asked if he could make a statement. I'm willing to listen to what you have to say as long as you are respectful. Well he kept telling me that I was going to go to hell because I did not believe how he did, and what he did. He told me that God does not hear me because I live sinfully. He doesn't know me! Where does he get off coming to my door and telling me such things? I keep to my position trying to be respectful to him and his beliefs. I don't want to break someone's faith.. that's not what I do. Then he told me I worshiped the created and not the creator. Why can't people read my door mat and do what it says? "Leave"<br>
Next time Dh is getting the door.<br><br>
Then! I'm talking to a friend online and he starts asking me about something another friend told him.<br><br>
The other friend told him that I slept with "friend" (dh's frat brother", "friend's" roomie (another frat brother), "friend's" wife(she and I went to high school together and were really good friends), and then another guy that was dh's friend since high school.<br>
Now I know this is all petty and I should not let it bother me. But is the fact that he betrayed me and dh. I don't know what he gains by saying this kind of stuff. I don't know if he is mad because his wife more than likely did sleep with all these people (other than me). I'm just hurt by this. What does he gain by loosing two friends? I feel like I'm surrounded my high schoolers again.<br><br>
So today I've been told I'm going to hell in more than one way and that I'm a dirty whore that sleeps with my husbands frat brothers.... I guess that's why I'm going to hell.
 

·
Banned
Joined
·
3,042 Posts
<div style="margin:20px;margin-top:5px;">
<div class="smallfont" style="margin-bottom:2px;">Quote:</div>
<table border="0" cellpadding="6" cellspacing="0" width="99%"><tr><td class="alt2" style="border:1px inset;">Why can't people read my door mat and do what it says? "Leave"</td>
</tr></table></div>
Where did you get that door mat? I want one.<br><br>
My thread about church people was pulled on Easter, so no comment on that. People suck.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,006 Posts
Discussion Starter #3
<div style="margin:20px;margin-top:5px;">
<div class="smallfont" style="margin-bottom:2px;">Quote:</div>
<table border="0" cellpadding="6" cellspacing="0" width="99%"><tr><td class="alt2" style="border:1px inset;">
<div>Originally Posted by <strong>2Sweeties1Angel</strong> <a href="/community/forum/post/7914204"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a></div>
<div style="font-style:italic;">Where did you get that door mat? I want one.<br><br>
My thread about church people was pulled on Easter, so no comment on that. People suck.</div>
</td>
</tr></table></div>
Bed Bath and Beyond. I could not pass it up.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
1,745 Posts
<div style="margin:20px;margin-top:5px;">
<div class="smallfont" style="margin-bottom:2px;">Quote:</div>
<table border="0" cellpadding="6" cellspacing="0" width="99%"><tr><td class="alt2" style="border:1px inset;">
<div>Originally Posted by <strong>MissAnnThrope</strong> <a href="/community/forum/post/7914216"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a></div>
<div style="font-style:italic;">Bed Bath and Beyond. I could not pass it up.</div>
</td>
</tr></table></div>
wow...i am totally going there today...
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,211 Posts
Join the club.<br><br>
I found out someone is lying about me to other people and another person continually said "let me talk" when she went on for 5 minutes about something when her point was made in the first 3 sentences. If she didn't like to hear herself talk so much, I wouldn't have to interrupt because she drives me batty! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/dizzy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Dizzy">:<br><br>
Jenn
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,153 Posts
<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/grouphug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="grouphug"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br>
So sorry people are stupid today. Hope tomorrow is better.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
2,271 Posts
I got a mat that said "GO AWAY" at BB&B. We traded it for the mat that says, "Ask not for whom the dog barks. It barks for thee."<br><br>
Old dude had some nerve criticizing you after you were polite to him. Ass.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
1,525 Posts
<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: that would piss me off hardcore!!!<br><br>
but you and i have yet another thing in common <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> my doormat says 'go away!'
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,092 Posts
I am there with you today, too, Mama.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br>
Next time a Christian says that kind of thing to you, just tell him you are living on the narrow path headed towards the narrow gate. Then see if he knows what the heck you are talking about! If he doesn't, he is more sheep in the sense that he follows others and repeats their words, than "sheep" as in Christian.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,108 Posts
So today I've been told I'm going to hell in more than one way and that I'm a dirty whore that sleeps with my husbands frat brothers.... I guess that's why I'm going to hell.<br><br>
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> That's actually pretty funny.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/duck.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Duck">:
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
3,225 Posts
Am I the only one who thought the thread title was amusingly matching with the user name? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">: Wish I thought of that username. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/winky.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Wink">
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
1,626 Posts
Sorry to hear your day sucked. Thanks for the PM awhile back. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/loveeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loveeyes">:
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
27,052 Posts
<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> You did set the record straight for the friend you were chatting with, yes? I think it's pretty lousy of him to not just tell the other "friend" that he was full of it, but talking to you about it is a more innocent sort of stupidity.<br><br>
I do find the juxtaposition of your username and the thread title to be quite funny.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,006 Posts
Discussion Starter #14
I'm not even going to bother talking to the "friend". I sent him a email a few weeks ago wanting to get an update on him and how things are going for him now that he is out of the navy. He never replied so I give up. I gave up on his wife a while ago. She was the most toxic person in my life and always had drama following her.<br><br>
My dad did get better though. We worked in the yard and got what we could get done...Done!!! Only after a month of it sitting unfinished. And then I went out with one of my really good friends and got to play hockey in his living room,dinning room for a few hours. It's fun having a bachelor as a friend.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,939 Posts
As is befitting for a misanthrope.<br><br>
I would tell the you're-going-to-hell people, "thanks, have a nice day!" Confuse them.
 
1 - 15 of 15 Posts
Top