<p>I am reading various posts on here and wondering what kind of testing do have done, if any? I have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We conceived a son 2 years ago thru IVF on our first time. IUI's etc did not work. He was born premature 31 weeks. My cervix shortened (not dilated). I nursed for over a year and we TTC that whole time and for about 5 months after we weaned with no luck went back to IVF, attempted a fzn cycle but eggs didn't make it thru thaw. Next cycle fresh did not work, next cycle frozen ended in a MC early after a positive blood test. I never had any kind of d&C (is that ok?) Next cycle, fresh ended at 22 weeks. We lost our twins at 22 weeks. I had a short cervix again 2 point something, went into dr office for reg appt and subsequently was admitted to hospital dilated 1 and went into labor and gave birth all within 24 hours of that. Within our grieving we feel like we are also mourning never having another baby. We don't even want to go thru IVF again, but since we don't know why I cant conceive we don't know what we will do. Although the losses are so recent, we can't help but talk about this. We asked the dr my likelihood of carrying a baby to term and he said with a singleton its highly possible to get to 31 weeks like I did with my son. To us, that seems irresponsible on our part because although our son is perfect to us, we went thru a great deal early on, NICU etc, and we feel irresponsible going forward with that hope.</p>
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<p>So I just feel confused and lost. The dr said they have no new info. I asked if the loss at 22 weeks gave them more info on me. My cervix dilated this time, so maybe I would be classified as incompetent cervix but I still dont fit that category. But regradless, it gives no info on infertility and why I cannot conceive. Any advice?</p>
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<p>So I just feel confused and lost. The dr said they have no new info. I asked if the loss at 22 weeks gave them more info on me. My cervix dilated this time, so maybe I would be classified as incompetent cervix but I still dont fit that category. But regradless, it gives no info on infertility and why I cannot conceive. Any advice?</p>
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