I am having difficulty with my 5 year old daughter. Every since she was born she had everyone wrapped around her finger and everyone bent over backwards for her. It is hard to be relaxed around her. When she comes home from school the atmosphere in the house turns chaotic. She is bossy and thinks she is in charge. It is affecting my husbands relationship with her and he says that she is insolent. I have a 3 year old and 2 year old that are so easygoing but she is teaching them bad behavior and now they have been rude and disrespectful. My husband came up with the idea that he tells her she is not welcome in our house until she changes her behavior and starts to be appreciative. His plan is to live with her at a hotel for a week or so as a valuable lesson. This way the other kids can get a break and not be corrupted by her bad leadership. Is this too extreme? Any advice? Any professionals you can recommend? I love her dearly and easily overlook her rudeness, selfishness and loud crying but everyday I am completely stressed out because of her.