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I went today for a 12 weeks US and my baby passed away at 10 weeks.

I kind of felt the baby was gone beforehand, but as soon as I saw the baby on the screen I knew and sobbed hysterically. A perfect, silent little 10 week fetus with no heartbeat. The OB came in and confirmed and called my midwife.

I'm not sure what I am going to do, I've always said I'd never get a D&E but my body is in complete denial and I don't think I can stand it for much longer, like the last few hours have been hell.


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I went today for a 12 weeks US and my baby passed away at 10 weeks.

I kind of felt the baby was gone beforehand, but as soon as I saw the baby on the screen I knew and sobbed hysterically. A perfect, silent little 10 week fetus with no heartbeat. The OB came in and confirmed and called my midwife.

I'm not sure what I am going to do, I've always said I'd never get a D&E but my body is in complete denial and I don't think I can stand it for much longer, like the last few hours have been hell.


I wish you all the best this is a great great of women and you've all been wonderful.

Oh no..oh no. I'm so so sorry for your loss, and that you have to go through this. Please take a little time to process with your family, and then make a decision. The women in the Pregnancy and Birth Loss threads are amazing, and were a wonderful support system for me when i had a loss.

I'm so very sorry.
 

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I'm so sorry. Many hugs to you. I am just so sorry.

I could not have made it through my miscarriage without the women on the Pregnancy and Birth Loss Threads. So many people don't understand and it is so comforting to be amogst those who do. Please take care of yourself.
 

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Wish I could give you a hug. I never hated miscarriage like I do now that I've had one. I hate that this happens to anyone. I was 12 weeks when I had mine so please feel free to pm me if you would like. Hugs and prayers. So sorry for your loss.
 

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I'm praying for your healing and for wisdom to make the decision that's best for you in this difficult time.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss.
When I miscarried, the fetus stopped growing at 6 weeks but I didn't pass it until 8 weeks, but my body figured it out eventually. You might want to consider misoprostol if you don't want to wait, and are opposed to having a D&C.
 

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Oh Michelle, i'm so sorry for your loss mama. Our DS's were born together in the last DDC, and I just wanted to offer you a hug!!!
 

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Oh, no
I'm so, so incredibly sorry. Do whatever you need to do to make this as easy as possible for you to process.
 
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