[Ursula]

I am fed up with my life. My stupid husband goes out every weekend. He doesn't drink or smoke so what the hell is he doing there? I don't like it. I just don't think married people should spend that much time in bars.
The sucky thing is I take all my anger on the children. The people that once were the most important in my life. Now that our relationship is falling apart I see myself pulling away from the kids.
I am thinking about moving away and leaving the kids with him, ha ha see how much he will go out then.
He is going through some kind midlife crisis, and it sucks. On nights when he leaves I just think SIZE=1]I hope you die[/SIZE] .
I have nobody to talk to and I just have to get it out.

 

[Arduinna]

Ursula ((HUGS)) sounds like your going through a very rough time.

I don't think anyone here can know if he is cheating. Do you think he will agree to go to counseling so that you guys can try and talk about what is going on? If not then you should seriously consider going alone, so that you have someone IRL to help you deal with this.

I wish you the best.

 

[Missgrl]

Moving this to Parents as Partners

 

[Eggie]

Ursula

s to you. Certainly you have too much tension at home. Can you go to visit someone for a few days with the kids? Counseling will help a lot, then someone will be able to talk to you and help you with your anger. Also seems that you cannot talk to him

, just keep in mind that "after the storm ther's always a shinny day". Hope everything gets better for you.