I have no interest in a relationship right now, nor for a very long time, but I am still human and want the benefits of a relationship. If I am making any sense. I don't want or need the complications/demands of a boyfriend, but I do crave the attention, and need for intimacy. Is that just asking for trouble? I hope I don't sound terrible in asking this. I do remember when my X and I were seperated before for a year there got to be a point where I was acting pretty desperate (seeing a guy missing a front tooth and thinking he was an option). I also made a mistake and went for someone who was a complete loser and regretted it very much. I am not interested in having someone in my children's lives at all right now. Someone just for myself. Can anyone give advice?