Dh and I have thought about this one for a while but can't seem to make up our minds; looking for input / opinions / experience. Ds is 16 mo, and when he hits / takes something from us etc, we'll use the "it makes me sad when you do that" type phrases, which he doesn't always understand. However, a few times we've made a very sad / crying face with it, and he does "get" that, even give us a hug or kiss.
On one hand, I'm thinking gestures / facial expressions are easier for him to understand, and therefore this may be appropriate. On the other hand, I sometimes feel it's deceitful; we're not really that sad, and I don't want to make him feel guilty or scared.
Anyone care to share their insight?
On one hand, I'm thinking gestures / facial expressions are easier for him to understand, and therefore this may be appropriate. On the other hand, I sometimes feel it's deceitful; we're not really that sad, and I don't want to make him feel guilty or scared.
Anyone care to share their insight?