i had her 8wks premature,she spent 3wksin the hospital. i bf and she sleeps with me at night. during the day if she goes to sleep and i try to put her down in a bassinet or swing she lasts only 5-20 minutes and wakes up crying. i wait until she is in a "deep" sleep - doesn't matter. she still wakes up crying - i try to put her in a sling - still cries. the result is i am holding her all day - and can't get anything done. i know i am supposed to not worry about housework etc but i mean i can' tput her down for long enough to get dishes done, or fix lunch, or even go to the bathroom.as a result i don't eat etc. is this normal? it seems like it is getting worse and worse - when she first came home she would sleep 2 hrs at a time laying down. now nothing, she hardly sleeps at all and nurses constantly- please help me figure out how to get her to nap peacefully! at night she sleeps (in my arms) and wakes up 2-3 times to nurse. i am at my wits end. when dh comes home and tries to hold her to give me a break she cries- he is getting a complex about her not liking him! help!