I'm going to go with it is temporary. That is awful young to give up her nap for good. And if she is then I would expect her to be in bed by about 6. 2.5-4 is more the age to give up naps. Heck my kid didn't really give up her 2nd nap until 14 months. She just turned 3 and naps on average every other day.
Is my 18 month old done with naps?
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Today is day two of no naps at all for my eighteen month old. Yesterday, she got about three minutes of sleep in the car, and today, nothing. She's currently outside playing happily with my partner and the cat.
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Lately, it takes me about an hour to nurse her down to sleep in the afternoon, and after she's out, I can't leave her. She's a very high needs kid so I'm sort of used to that-- I just get online with my laptop and lie there with her. She nurses pretty frequently during her nap but will sleep for about two or two and a half hours- usually from 2pm to 4 or 4:30.
After that nap, she stays up until about 8, and then we do bath and story time until nine. It takes me another hour to nurse her down then, and she needs me pretty much all the time while she's sleeping and I can't leave her.
Well, yesterday, she had no nap and was definitely ready for bed around 8:30-- I even got her out of the tub early because she kept latching on and sort of dozing. I started nursing her as usual, and she fell fast asleep and popped off the breast around ten minutes later. I'd gotten involved in something, so I laid there with her for another half hour and then I left. She stayed asleep for a glorious hour, allowing me to drink a glass of wine and watch some embarrassingly trashy television.
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After that, she slept better than she'd slept in a LONG time and we both woke up this morning around 8, which is pretty normal.
I really think she's dropping it, but my mother thinks its temporary due to teething. She's never been a big sleeper. Any thoughts? I do plan to push her bedtime back an hour so that she's hopefully sleeping from 8pm-8am, with breaks for nursing.
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Lately, it takes me about an hour to nurse her down to sleep in the afternoon, and after she's out, I can't leave her. She's a very high needs kid so I'm sort of used to that-- I just get online with my laptop and lie there with her. She nurses pretty frequently during her nap but will sleep for about two or two and a half hours- usually from 2pm to 4 or 4:30.
After that nap, she stays up until about 8, and then we do bath and story time until nine. It takes me another hour to nurse her down then, and she needs me pretty much all the time while she's sleeping and I can't leave her.
Well, yesterday, she had no nap and was definitely ready for bed around 8:30-- I even got her out of the tub early because she kept latching on and sort of dozing. I started nursing her as usual, and she fell fast asleep and popped off the breast around ten minutes later. I'd gotten involved in something, so I laid there with her for another half hour and then I left. She stayed asleep for a glorious hour, allowing me to drink a glass of wine and watch some embarrassingly trashy television.
I really think she's dropping it, but my mother thinks its temporary due to teething. She's never been a big sleeper. Any thoughts? I do plan to push her bedtime back an hour so that she's hopefully sleeping from 8pm-8am, with breaks for nursing.
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naking...
My DD definitely went thru periods of no naps, or napping a few times a week, on and off for months and months. I don't know still if it's tied to teething or what. I just try to really enjoy the quick nursing-down and better early-evening sleep while she didn't nap (we try to get her down by 7 b/c she wakes by 6:30 or so)and to enjoy the break (I usually read and sleep
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she needs help halfway thru) on those days she does nap. It's still going like this at almost 2.
My DD definitely went thru periods of no naps, or napping a few times a week, on and off for months and months. I don't know still if it's tied to teething or what. I just try to really enjoy the quick nursing-down and better early-evening sleep while she didn't nap (we try to get her down by 7 b/c she wakes by 6:30 or so)and to enjoy the break (I usually read and sleep
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In my experience, almost all kids that age still need to nap. Often, kids seem to drop naps because their parents are too busy and can't put in the time it takes to get them down. Obviously that's not the case with you.
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So it must be something else.
I would maybe try putting her down earlier for her nap. I know it doesn't make any sense, but one of the side effects of DS being tired is mania. We had gotten out of the habit of putting him to sleep/nap on time, because he didn't seem tired (also, we're lazy
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) So he is running around crazy, super-happy and having a great time and I'm thinking "there's no way this kid's going to sleep." but then the longer he's awake, the harder it is for him to fall asleep (until, of course, you reach the "total collapse" stage) and the more grief he gives me for having the audacity to suggest that perhaps he should go to sleep. Also, I've noticed he also sleeps much better (longer and less restless) if he's not completely exhausted.
so for example, if we wake up @ 7:30-8am I put him down for a nap @ 12-2 and then bedtime @ 8pm.
Just because they CAN stay up so late and seem fine, doesn't always mean they SHOULD, kwim?
Hope you figure out what's wrong. A mama needs nap time!
I would maybe try putting her down earlier for her nap. I know it doesn't make any sense, but one of the side effects of DS being tired is mania. We had gotten out of the habit of putting him to sleep/nap on time, because he didn't seem tired (also, we're lazy
so for example, if we wake up @ 7:30-8am I put him down for a nap @ 12-2 and then bedtime @ 8pm.
Just because they CAN stay up so late and seem fine, doesn't always mean they SHOULD, kwim?
Hope you figure out what's wrong. A mama needs nap time!
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