I was going to post about this earlier but I had a parent activity meeting and Alex has baseball and there was no dinner, and no laundry done and homework had to be done. I finally got his bath out of the way and some vaseline on the sore spots and got him in bed.. so now I can post about it.
After school today alex came to me and said... 'Mom.. Something happend to my penis and its differnt now, and its bleeding a little', he didnt even waiton my reaction before unzipping his jeans and showing me... and when he showed me all I could do was say.. 'thank god', but he looked at me like I was high on drugs.. I told him that thats why its been sore for the past couple of weeks because it was begining to come apart because he's growing up and becoming a man.
He still has a few parts that are still fairly adheased to the glans, but it appears as if about 80% of its now detached.. I asked him what hapend and he said he went to pee at school and was in a hurry and pulled the skin backlike I showed him but he did it quick and aparantly too hard and it just tore free and he said it hurt really bad for a few min, lol the boy did not even get to pee, he was holding it in until he got home to show me.
anyway we put some vaseline on his penis head with a qtip gently under the spots that still stuck to the head and then he peed... Then i asked him to let me look at it again, and the head of his penis is fairly sore and red as if its sore, but not infected. I had him go lay down on his bed and I got some neosporin.. I put the neosporn under his foreskin on the sore parts with a qtip again, but by this time he was showing that he was growing up and was fully erect, i asked him to just trust me and let me continue helping him.. I did notice that when he is erect that the opening to his penis head is small.. will this clear up? on the left side of his penis its still adhered about half way up the glans, but beyond that, around the part of his head thats the widest its still attached there, so it doesnt retract all the way...
Now questions... will the opening to his penis head get larger or what do we do? Should I teach him how to clean under his foreskin yet or can we wait until it completely detaches? Should I encourage him to tug at the remaning adhesions when he has an erection? (I read this somewhere else)
I asked him before his bath if he wanted to put the neosporin on himself he could, but i would still like to look at it.. but he said he wanted me to put it on him anyway, so im going to keep doing that until he tells me not to..
Wow.. I feel so excited... but.. he's scared.. I wish he could be excited the same as I am...
All I can say is... screw that doctor he saw monday. screw the people who wanted to cut it off him last year and when he was born... screw 'em all. My boys completely intact and healthy!
And sorry for that bit of language and sorry for not spell checking and sorry if i left anything out or said too much or sorry if I didnt do somethign I should have but... wow.. I still have to do the dishes from dinner YESTERDAY and laundry is still wet and needs dried...
Can anyone be my helper for a while?