Hi everyone- new to the forum- hope I'm doing this right. Actually, I happened upon this site while trying to decide wether or not to get an IUD. I've been trying to decide on something different for a long time now. My son just turned 3 and I've been on bc pills since he was born. I haven't felt like myself since I had him-very grumpy and I have little patience with DH and I have always been easy going and happy. My thoughts have been maybe the hormones in the pills have just screwed me up. I hear so many different things I don't know what to do. I've been looking at paragard and I like it because it's non-hormonal, but I'm nervous because I only have one child and scared of not being able to have anymore and I guess that risk is with all IUD's. After the birth of my son my Dr. wouldn't give me one because of that risk. Any advice would be greatly appreciated I'm just so tired of feeling so terrible.