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After having this miscarriage I am now second guessing everything.<br>
I mean I know I have always wanted 3 children but now Im so scared of the "what Ifs"<br><br>
I keep thinking should I even try because "what If" I cant get pregnant or what if I have another later miscarriage? Or "what If" the baby is sick?<br>
I know I have no control over these things but yet part of me says dont even try because you can end up with one of these what ifs<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br><br>
Is this normal to feel?<br>
Do you ever <i>really</i> get past these strong nervous feelings? Do you ever feel confident while pregnant again??
 

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I hear ya- I am very much there also! I have fianlly come to the point where I know that I just need to let go of the whole thing and put it in God's hands. We have been TTC for over a year, including the m/c, and it is just wearing too much on us. I feel like I have to let go of wanting more kids right now- not that I am going to avoid trying to get pregnant, I just feel like it is unfair to DS to keep focusing on the possibility of some future child that may not be a reality. It is very hard.
 

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HUGS Mama<br><br>
it is so hard not to worry, hope pray and obsess<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br><br><br>
I feel added "pressure" since we put our house on the market so we can buy one with more bedrooms because of the new baby that we lost<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">
 
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