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<p>We found out this morning that our baby had passed away at about 6 1/2 weeks, and I was almost 10 weeks along. I've been having some cramping and bleeding since yesterday, after spotting the entire pregnancy. The blood is after I wipe, but it's bright red and has tiny clots.</p>
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<p>We didn't even think we could get pregnant, my older kids are from a previous marriage and we have never tried to avoid... Our DD just turned 7 and we had medical help to conceive her. We had gone through the homestudy process to foster adopt and were approved and waiting for our match when I got a positive pregnancy test. I was 5 1/2 weeks at that point. I spent the first weeks after we found out mourning our adoption and in shock at being pregnant. My husband was joyful from the first, he's been so excited!</p>
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<p>It was just last week that I found peace and acceptance and really believed there was a baby inside me. Now I have to wait to pass whatever is left of her or him and it's soul is has ready gone on. I hope it's over soon.</p>
 

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<p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I found out at 8 weeks that my baby had no heartbeat and measured only 6w3d. I didn't actually miscarry until 10 weeks, though. My heart goes out to you.</p>
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<p>It sounds like the process is well underway for you. I hope everything is over quickly. Best wishes for hope and healing for you, mama. I hope you'll join us here any time to vent, cry...whatever you need. We understand. <span><img alt="hug2.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug2.gif"></span></p>
 

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<p>I'm so sorry, mama. <span><img alt="candle.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/candle.gif"></span><span><img alt="hug2.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug2.gif"></span></p>
 

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<p> I'm so sorry for your loss <span><img alt="hug.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug.gif"></span></p>
 

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<p>I am so very sorry.  </p>
 

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<p><span><img alt="hug.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="width:22px;height:15px;"></span></p>
 
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