Well, getting a Doctor has been the world's largest annoyance for me. Let me give you a brief history of me - I am American, immigrating to Canada. I am not covered by OHIP yet (Canadian free healthcare.) I am used to calling who I want, making an appointment, usually same week, and being done with it. Well, knock me over with a feather! Not this time! Here is the dealio.
I wanted a home birth and mid-wife. When I contacted the midwife center I was told they would not do a homebirth with me due to medical history. Previous preeclampsia, mitral valve with regurg (heart) and thryoid disease. They only do "low-risk." You have to get an OBGYN they say. OK, yuck, but what can I do.
Then my father (grandfather by birth - I am adopted) back home in Florida vomits bile and goes to the hosptial - ti's not looking so good (he is 77 years old.) He has advanced sclerosis of the liver, 15% of his heart, and his gallbladder was severely infected. I flew to Florida- was there on his death bed, and with him throug ha surgery he had only a 10% chance of living through (removal of gallbladder.) He made it, and I lived with him nursing him back to health, chaning his diapers, lifting him in and out of bed, changing his urinals, and to be honest, being there was very very stressful. We aren't exactally "close," but regardless of who he is, I love him, I just don't like him. Once he is well enough to take care of himself I fly back home. A month has now passed.
I am now in my second trimester. Clock is ticking. Trying to get a regular Doctor. To get an OBGYN in Canada, you need a Doctor to write a referral. It is a requirement of Canada, even if I am paying out of pocket. But there is a Doctor shortage, and I cannot find a Doctor willing to accept new patients. I didn't know Canada requires referrals, so I call the OBGYN I want to go to (referred by friend who had twins.) No, they won't take me, I need a referral, but go to a clinic, they will give me one.
At this point, I feel sick off and on with headaches and climbing blood pressure. (This is weeks ago by the way.)
So, I go to a clinic one evening when my husband gets back from work. They turn me away, tell me to go home, they do not write referrals to OBGYN's. I say, help me! My blood pressure is high! They say, go to the Women's Clinic, they handle labor and delivery.
Now I am 17 weeks. The clock is ticking, and I am getting annoyed.
So, I call the Women's Clinic to make an appointment. They won't see me. They don't have OBGYN's and I am too risky. They tell me to go to a different clinic, that that one was way out of line to refuse me medical care. They also give me a name of a doctor taking new patients. That was very very good news, as new Doctors taking new patients is rare in Canada these days(it's even worse in other areas of Canada - it's the best here because I am near Toronto in Hamilton.)
I call the Doctor taking new patients. I have to wait a month to get in, no earlier. Please can I get in earlier? No sorry, it's the best we can do. They told me they will get me a referral to an OBGYN, but expect to wait to get into the OBGYN after I get the referral, it could also take a month. ACK! Two months from now? Oh great... now... now I am mad, nervous, and scared.
So, I call and visit every clinic in the area. FOUR CLINICS LATER - refused. No clinic will see me. They actually SEND ME HOME. At this point, I am crying.. I was told to go to the hospital.
Before I even bother going ot the hosptial, I call. Glad I did. They tell me I can go to the ER, but the nurse tells me the ER very likely will NOT write me a referral to an OBGYN. I need a referral from a family Doctor. The ER can only treat me for high blood pressure. I said would they medically treat me? She said she cannot say, if it is not severe, they will likely order bed rest, but of course this is for a doctor to decide. She said it was best that an OBGYN treat me. I said what if it is preeclampsia? She says, come in and see. But I had this feeling that with BP of only 140/95, they won't take me seriously, and they won't write a referral to an OBGYN, so WHY BOTHER!!!!!
Now, I am in crying again. Like a big huge baby. Ok, so I DID get a Doctor, but I have to wait a month to see him. Then it will take a while from there after getting the referral to get an OBGYN. By then I will be in labor or dead from the heart attack this is giving me!!!
So I, last ditch effort. I call the OBGYN I want to go to. This doctor is a Professor at McMaster University, and this isn't just any University. They have a rep as one of the best Universities in Canada and is considered "World Class." Now, I have been warned by people, including people on this forum - good luck in getting him because of who he is. I tell the girl over the phone the events leading up until now. She wants details as to my medical history, how far along I am, last period, phone number, and says she will call me back.
She calls me back a half hour later. She spoke with the Doctor, he said he wanted to wave the referral and see me next week. You have no idea how good this makes me feel. Already I feel like the Doctor CARES! And the young lady who helped me, wow.
I wanted a home birth and mid-wife. When I contacted the midwife center I was told they would not do a homebirth with me due to medical history. Previous preeclampsia, mitral valve with regurg (heart) and thryoid disease. They only do "low-risk." You have to get an OBGYN they say. OK, yuck, but what can I do.
Then my father (grandfather by birth - I am adopted) back home in Florida vomits bile and goes to the hosptial - ti's not looking so good (he is 77 years old.) He has advanced sclerosis of the liver, 15% of his heart, and his gallbladder was severely infected. I flew to Florida- was there on his death bed, and with him throug ha surgery he had only a 10% chance of living through (removal of gallbladder.) He made it, and I lived with him nursing him back to health, chaning his diapers, lifting him in and out of bed, changing his urinals, and to be honest, being there was very very stressful. We aren't exactally "close," but regardless of who he is, I love him, I just don't like him. Once he is well enough to take care of himself I fly back home. A month has now passed.
I am now in my second trimester. Clock is ticking. Trying to get a regular Doctor. To get an OBGYN in Canada, you need a Doctor to write a referral. It is a requirement of Canada, even if I am paying out of pocket. But there is a Doctor shortage, and I cannot find a Doctor willing to accept new patients. I didn't know Canada requires referrals, so I call the OBGYN I want to go to (referred by friend who had twins.) No, they won't take me, I need a referral, but go to a clinic, they will give me one.
At this point, I feel sick off and on with headaches and climbing blood pressure. (This is weeks ago by the way.)
So, I go to a clinic one evening when my husband gets back from work. They turn me away, tell me to go home, they do not write referrals to OBGYN's. I say, help me! My blood pressure is high! They say, go to the Women's Clinic, they handle labor and delivery.
Now I am 17 weeks. The clock is ticking, and I am getting annoyed.
So, I call the Women's Clinic to make an appointment. They won't see me. They don't have OBGYN's and I am too risky. They tell me to go to a different clinic, that that one was way out of line to refuse me medical care. They also give me a name of a doctor taking new patients. That was very very good news, as new Doctors taking new patients is rare in Canada these days(it's even worse in other areas of Canada - it's the best here because I am near Toronto in Hamilton.)
I call the Doctor taking new patients. I have to wait a month to get in, no earlier. Please can I get in earlier? No sorry, it's the best we can do. They told me they will get me a referral to an OBGYN, but expect to wait to get into the OBGYN after I get the referral, it could also take a month. ACK! Two months from now? Oh great... now... now I am mad, nervous, and scared.

So, I call and visit every clinic in the area. FOUR CLINICS LATER - refused. No clinic will see me. They actually SEND ME HOME. At this point, I am crying.. I was told to go to the hospital.
Before I even bother going ot the hosptial, I call. Glad I did. They tell me I can go to the ER, but the nurse tells me the ER very likely will NOT write me a referral to an OBGYN. I need a referral from a family Doctor. The ER can only treat me for high blood pressure. I said would they medically treat me? She said she cannot say, if it is not severe, they will likely order bed rest, but of course this is for a doctor to decide. She said it was best that an OBGYN treat me. I said what if it is preeclampsia? She says, come in and see. But I had this feeling that with BP of only 140/95, they won't take me seriously, and they won't write a referral to an OBGYN, so WHY BOTHER!!!!!

Now, I am in crying again. Like a big huge baby. Ok, so I DID get a Doctor, but I have to wait a month to see him. Then it will take a while from there after getting the referral to get an OBGYN. By then I will be in labor or dead from the heart attack this is giving me!!!

So I, last ditch effort. I call the OBGYN I want to go to. This doctor is a Professor at McMaster University, and this isn't just any University. They have a rep as one of the best Universities in Canada and is considered "World Class." Now, I have been warned by people, including people on this forum - good luck in getting him because of who he is. I tell the girl over the phone the events leading up until now. She wants details as to my medical history, how far along I am, last period, phone number, and says she will call me back.
She calls me back a half hour later. She spoke with the Doctor, he said he wanted to wave the referral and see me next week. You have no idea how good this makes me feel. Already I feel like the Doctor CARES! And the young lady who helped me, wow.