I'm not sure what your son is planning on studying but if he's going into something like a science/tech field it's actually be a lot easier for him to travel while being a college student (it's obviously still possible in the humanities too but it's harder to get those ones). There are a lot of great scholarships out there to study abroad and some really great opportunities for things like internships too. Another trick is to minor in a foreign language and some universities offer scholarships to foreign language majors/minors.Originally Posted by ollyoxenfree
DS was awarded a scholarship for his first-choice university. It makes his decision for next year a little tougher. He wanted to take a gap year to travel, but the scholarship can't be deferred. We'll see what he decides to do. He also found out he was hired back as a counsellor at the music camp he worked at last summer and he's excited about returning there. He and his band have a CD release party planned for the end of the month, just before he leaves for camp. Out of the blue, he told me how happy he is right now. He's enjoying life, having fun with his friends, working on his music and earning enough money at jobs he likes (an art gallery and the upcoming music camp). It almost makes me wish I was 18 again, although I think he has a much better handle on things than I did when I was that age.
He's a funny kid. His plans to travel are mostly to visit with friends who live overseas and re-connect with them. He likes the idea of traveling for a bit for fun, but wants to stay at home for school. I've encouraged him to study at a school away from home, either in a different city, across the country or internationally, but he plans on staying put. When I was his age, I was eager to leave home for university. In fact, I was almost 2 years younger than he is, thanks to skipping and a later birthday. I was the middle kid in a big family though, and craved a chance to get some independence and create my own identity and living space. I found attending university away from home was a great place to take those first steps into independent adult life because of all of the support available, like residences with meal plans, student services, counseling, medical services, peer support groups and so on.Originally Posted by physmom
I'm not sure what your son is planning on studying but if he's going into something like a science/tech field it's actually be a lot easier for him to travel while being a college student (it's obviously still possible in the humanities too but it's harder to get those ones). There are a lot of great scholarships out there to study abroad and some really great opportunities for things like internships too. Another trick is to minor in a foreign language and some universities offer scholarships to foreign language majors/minors.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. My sisters and I were all very, very different when it came to wanting to get away from home and we're all pretty well-adjusted adults now.Originally Posted by ollyoxenfree
He's a funny kid. His plans to travel are mostly to visit with friends who live overseas and re-connect with them. He likes the idea of traveling for a bit for fun, but wants to stay at home for school. I've encouraged him to study at a school away from home, either in a different city, across the country or internationally, but he plans on staying put. When I was his age, I was eager to leave home for university. In fact, I was almost 2 years younger than he is, thanks to skipping and a later birthday. I was the middle kid in a big family though, and craved a chance to get some independence and create my own identity and living space. I found attending university away from home was a great place to take those first steps into independent adult life because of all of the support available, like residences with meal plans, student services, counseling, medical services, peer support groups and so on.
I figure we've either done something very wrong (he'll be a cellar-dwelling "failure to launch" type long after DH and I have retired) or something very right (he likes living with us and being part of the family and he's being pragmatic about financing his education with the money we've saved for him, scholarships etc., and using "extra" cash to travel for fun).
I am going to continue to encourage him to study abroad, but I think I'll have better luck with DD. She's already hoping to go to Greece next summer with a friend, and she's talking about west coast universities.
Congratulations! That's awesome. He sounds like a really neat kid.DS was awarded a scholarship for his first-choice university
Originally Posted by loraxc
We've been struggling with a lot of emotional outbursts over very little (yesterday she was hysterical because the .59 yogurt we bought was moldy when we opened it--"It's not fair that you spent your money on that and now we have to throw it away"--???). She starts 4 weeks of drama camp next week.
Infinity is such fun for kids! My 8-year-old has recently returned to the concept of infinity with a meta-cognitive spin. She's interested in why our brains have such difficulty conceptualizing infinity ... what is it about the architecture of consciousness that makes inifinity such a problematic concept for us. She loves "annoying her brain" with tricks like "imagine all the whole numbers, all the way out to infinity, and then double them all, and try to make your brain understand why you can't actually double infinity." She comes up with these thought experiments, and enjoys the "Wow! Freaky!" feeling she gets from them.