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Just started solids - what do you think about this?

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OK - so 6 mo ds has been just drooling at the mouth and reaching for our food for over a month now, so I decided to just try some apple with him. So I made some applesauce and he was SOOOOO excited.

I think he still has the toungue reflex though (is that what it is?) b/c the food keeps just coming right out. He is also grimicing a bit (and a little gag here and there) - maybe applesauce is too graininy to start with.

anyway, he still is excited to get the food (grabs the spoon and stuffs it in his mouth) but isn't so crazy once it goes in. So, I think I'll just keep trying little bits here and there b/c he is at least having fun.

But, if he is pushing it out with his toungue, is it still too early for him?

Thanks!

--Jennifer
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Originally Posted by BelCanto
OK - so 6 mo ds has been just drooling at the mouth and reaching for our food for over a month now, so I decided to just try some apple with him. So I made some applesauce and he was SOOOOO excited.

I think he still has the toungue reflex though (is that what it is?) b/c the food keeps just coming right out. He is also grimicing a bit (and a little gag here and there) - maybe applesauce is too graininy to start with.

anyway, he still is excited to get the food (grabs the spoon and stuffs it in his mouth) but isn't so crazy once it goes in. So, I think I'll just keep trying little bits here and there b/c he is at least having fun.

But, if he is pushing it out with his toungue, is it still too early for him?

Thanks!

--Jennifer
Well, I'm no expert. I have used a scientific sample of one child (my ds, of course). I started solids with him just after 6 months. He is now almost 9 months and has just a bit of solids just once a day still. He usually eats them, but really is kind of ambivalent about the whole thing.

There is a bit of a learning curve for them. My ds does not have the tongue thrust, but some food still comes out a bit since he is still figuring out how to use his tongue, lips, and teeth.

He has NEVER gagged on food. He pretended to gag one time because he hated the porridge I had made.
I say "pretended" because there was no food in his mouth. He just made a horrible gagging sound and wouldn't open his mouth! We never tried the porridge again.

The grimacing is normal, I think. Yesterday ds grimaced a bit with every bite of sweet potato, but ate it all. He was grabbing the spoon and putting it in his mouth, so I certainly wasn't forcing it on him. I think it is just a response to a new texture.

I guess I'd say perhaps try the applesauce once more with no pressure. Then hold off for a few days. Things can change a lot in just a few days. There's nothing magical about six months, though. IMO, you could wait several more months with no concerns. Sounds like your ds would enjoy just playing with a spoon, too!

Oh, I wanted to add, ds prefers WARM food. So I pop the applesauce in the microwave for 10 seconds or so (and then stir it well and check to make sure it isn't too warm). If it is cold, he won't eat it.
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Originally Posted by trini
He has NEVER gagged on food. He pretended to gag one time because he hated the porridge I had made.
I say "pretended" because there was no food in his mouth. He just made a horrible gagging sound and wouldn't open his mouth! We never tried the porridge again.


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i have nothing to add to this conversation - sorry - but i just wanted to say thank you for giving me a really hearty laugh just now!

my dh makes this horrid porridge for himself almost every day - he calls it his 'gruesome grain gruel' - and i make the same awful gagging noise as your ds (i imagine) when i see it. i had to read that part aloud to dh, who looked a little sheepish as i chuckled away.

thanks again.
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Here's some good reading. It mentions milestones that indicate a baby being ready for solids, including no longer pushing out solids from their mouth with their tongue.

http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/so...lids-when.html
Sounds too early to me. Babies aren't really ready for solids until they can and will self feed.

-Angela
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Originally Posted by alegna
Sounds too early to me. Babies aren't really ready for solids until they can and will self feed.

-Angela
I agree with this. If you'd asked me two months ago, I wouldn't have, but I have changed my position.
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I second the self feeding...either with a spoon or their fingers, letting little ones experiment with food is part of the learning process for them. It sounds like your dc is interested in exploring his world and environment, and he see's you eating and wants to know what it's all about. Maybe put a little applesauce on a plate (or on any clean surface) and let your little one play with it. Some might go in the mouth, some in the hair or ears, but he's learning and exploring. When he's ready to eat, he'll eat...no effort on your part except to offer and clean up the inevitable mess
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I know some mamas who dread feeding their little ones since it's a real power struggle and they're always complaining about how hard it is, and how much time it takes. If you're nursing and letting your little one self feed then you don't have to worry about any of that. The nursing takes care of their nutritional needs and the solids are really just for fun. Eating doesn't become a battle, and that's got to be a good thing!
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