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What sorts of quetions/thigns should I be getting together for my lawyer appt on Tuesday?<br><br>
I know I want to address my visitation concerns... basically I just don't want any overnights. I'm afraid if I try for anything more than that I will be viewed as a harpy denying acces. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
I also want to ask if there is any legal obligation to have STBX at birth. I'm thinking no, but want to make sure because I know he is going to flip on this and I need protection on it.<br><br>
Financial stuffs... I want to be covered under his insurance until after the baby is born since I already started all my care and have monies towards my deductible, I don't want to start over with that.<br><br>
Legal seperation? Basically something to say that I can legally have DD and leave without him calling the cops. I asked the DV shelter about this and she said to ask about a temporary custody order to protect us.<br><br>
What else should I be thinking of?
I know I want to address my visitation concerns... basically I just don't want any overnights. I'm afraid if I try for anything more than that I will be viewed as a harpy denying acces. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
I also want to ask if there is any legal obligation to have STBX at birth. I'm thinking no, but want to make sure because I know he is going to flip on this and I need protection on it.<br><br>
Financial stuffs... I want to be covered under his insurance until after the baby is born since I already started all my care and have monies towards my deductible, I don't want to start over with that.<br><br>
Legal seperation? Basically something to say that I can legally have DD and leave without him calling the cops. I asked the DV shelter about this and she said to ask about a temporary custody order to protect us.<br><br>
What else should I be thinking of?