[Ary99]

I went for my appointment today (10 weeks) and found out our baby had died. I'm shocked and devastated. Good luck to the rest of you. I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow to end this nightmare.

 

[ewe+lamb]

I'm really sorry.<br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br>
Rachel

 

[Selissa]

I'm sooo sorry mama (((hugs)))

 

[Simply Nurtured]

I am so sorry... It is very hard.<br><br>
This happened to us 10 years ago this coming March.<br><br>
You absolutely must do whatever you think is right for you, I do not want to interfere, but sometimes I wish I had just let the miscarriage complete itself naturally...<br><br>
It is ok and healthy for you to mourn your baby. Sometimes in our society, we do not "allow" families to do that, so please give yourself permission to do so.<br><br>
Love and hugs during this difficult time...<br><br>
~Wanda

 

[BinahYeteirah]

I am sorry.<br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><br><br>
Please take time for yourself. I know you have some hard times coming up, so I hope you can free yourself as much as possible to feel all the hard emotions.

 

[mmgarda]

Ayr - take extra special care of yourself. I've been there and I know what it's like. Good vibes to you.

 

[gossamer]

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray for you to know peace.<br>
Gossamer

 

[Mer]

I'm really sorry for your loss. I second what the others have said. Be sure to take plenty of time for yourself to grieve. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[Abigail]

<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"> So sorry for your loss!

 

[soccerchic21]

I too am sorry for your loss and encourage you to let yourself grieve. I miscarried my daughters twin about 2 years ago and I am now just really trying to deal with it when I wish I would have back then.

 

[rainbowmoon]

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