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"You must have your hands full!"

the mama with all the kids groweth weary of hearing this......
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"Oh no, it's easy when the other 4 are at home with their dad!"
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Better full than empty

Really I hadn't noticed
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When using a sling, I usually say-"not as much as I would be if I didn't have this!"
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Originally Posted by Eman'smom
Better full than empty
I say this all the time.
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AdoptChina, I liked the one in your attachment:

statement: "You have your hands full!"

reply: looks down at hands, confused...
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I hear that all the time, even if I am only out w/half of our kids! Now I am armed!
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I get that question all the time and I only have 2. But now I know what to say


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Originally Posted by Eman'smom
Better full than empty
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I get this all the time, and smile and agree - like 'yes, it's wonderful, isn't it?'
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Umm...I'm a mama of an only who's said that before.
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I've just meant it like "I'm really impressed that you can be a good mama to more than one or two children. I don't think I could do it. It seems like it would be hard."
So, if you're really trying to educate, maybe "It's not as hard as you'd think".
Ok...
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I nanny for two boys who act as stand-in brothers for my boy.
: When we all go out together, I hear a lot of the hands-full sentiment . . . I don't know how you do it kind of stuff. Truth is, for me at least, sometimes more is easier! They entertain each other and on occasion I actually get to do something luxurious, like pee, pull up my pants, and wash my hands WITH NO CHILD UNDERFOOT! (Shhh, don't tell the boys' parents; they think I'm a baby genius.)
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We've got 4. I usually mumble something about how we all help each other and how lucky we are. I can never think of clever quick things to say. But I don't take most comments about my family in a bad way. 4 kids isn't that many compared many families I knew growing up. I usually figure they're jealous.
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I like to reply with "Yes, my hands are full - and my heart is even fuller!"

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Do you all find the "hands full" comment offensive, or are you just sick of hearing it all the time?
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Originally Posted by mamakay
Do you all find the "hands full" comment offensive, or are you just sick of hearing it all the time?
I hear it all the time, and I've only got two kids. It bothers me because I wonder what they're thinking; after all, there are only two of them! Granted, they're fairly close in age, but I don't generally feel as if I actually *have* my hands full. I'm just... busy. In a very healthy way, I think. So yeah, it gets on my nerves because it seems like a silly thing to say to someone who's only got two kids.
Now that I think of it, I had a friend move out of town when ds was an infant, and came back when he was about 18 months. The friend made some comment about my son being a "handful" and I took offense.
I heard it as "Your kid is unusually troublesome", for some reason, even though I doubt my friend meant it that way.
So, maybe I do understand...do the words "your hands full" mean "trouble" to you?
In that "What a pain in the a**" kind of way?
How about "You know what they say: busy hands, happy heart"
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