No, I don't know when I ovulate, but I think I did about 5 days after dtd. Thank you for the advice and well wishes. I don't think it is likely, but am thinking about it because last time he randomly decided not to "follow the plan" we were blessed with #3. This would be a very bad time for #4.
Depends are you charting, postpartum, nursing or had a recent miscarriage? When I am in full swing with my cycles after a baby, for me about 15mo pp, I would consider taking that risk.
I almost always regulate back to O on day 13/14 *but* after a miscarriage conceived on day 9 of my cycle (we were trying and charting so I knew when I O'd) so now with that in the back of my head I don't know if I will ever feel comfortable taking that risk if I am absolutely not wanting to get pg.
Oops just read your update. Hoping for the best for you.