Aloha Ladies,
I'm not sure if it's appropriate to post here, but I'm looking for advice. My dh's cousin and hubby are going through major infertility stuff and are on their last efforts to try and get pregnant (already been through 3 IVF cycles unsuccessfully)
We spent a week with them last month and we talked a lot about it-- they sooooo deserve a child and it breaks my heart to know that they're having trouble! To make matters worse, tons of their friends are pregnant and her bro just had a baby with his wife (after 1 round of IVF)....
Anyhow, I'm a super empathetic person and I found out recently that I'm pregnant.... I'm so afraid to tell them though.... They are such wonderful people and I feel that it's SO unfair that they are going through this. I don't want to add to their sorrow by getting pregnant "easily"- I guess I'm looking for a sensitive way to let them know. And it is important that they hear from us, and not some other family member who may not be thinking of their feelings.
Any words of wisdom???
Many thanks,
Karen
I'm not sure if it's appropriate to post here, but I'm looking for advice. My dh's cousin and hubby are going through major infertility stuff and are on their last efforts to try and get pregnant (already been through 3 IVF cycles unsuccessfully)

We spent a week with them last month and we talked a lot about it-- they sooooo deserve a child and it breaks my heart to know that they're having trouble! To make matters worse, tons of their friends are pregnant and her bro just had a baby with his wife (after 1 round of IVF)....
Anyhow, I'm a super empathetic person and I found out recently that I'm pregnant.... I'm so afraid to tell them though.... They are such wonderful people and I feel that it's SO unfair that they are going through this. I don't want to add to their sorrow by getting pregnant "easily"- I guess I'm looking for a sensitive way to let them know. And it is important that they hear from us, and not some other family member who may not be thinking of their feelings.
Any words of wisdom???
Many thanks,
Karen