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I've finally decided to "force" DH to figure out what is going on with his digestive system. He knows something is up, but it's so easy to just live with it and not take action. So, as usual, his wife (me) has decided to try to take action. LOL
I'm going to try to give an overview of what is going on. This isn't all of it, but all I could get from him last night as we were talking. If anything isn't clear, just ask and I can ask him about it.
First off, his mother has ulcerative colitis. Her side of the family has quite a bit of autoimmune stuff diagnosed. Not sure how needed that info is, but I wanted to include it just incase.
Not sure where to start with his symptoms, so I'll just start listing them.
Diarrhea is almost "normal" for him. It is quite often that he has to run to the bathroom. He said it was better for a few months, but the past two weeks has been worse.
He can not eat before 9 in the morning (he is at work at 7am). If he does he gets bad stomach cramps. The only thing he has had luck eating first thing is pizza, but he usually just skips.
He has to go to the bathroom within 15 mins or so after eating. No matter what it is.
He has to quickly get to the bathroom every time he eats oatmeal (as a cereal or in cookies, etc)
He used to have terrible trouble after eating spaghetti, but now that he eats smaller portions, he doesn't have that trouble.
We've tried to pay attention and really can't find what sets him off. Oatmeal is the only thing he knows for sure will send him to the bathroom so quickly. He feels it's more like it takes up room and forces stuff out rather than "causing trouble" (as he put it). He also said that he knows he eats too fast (habit from work). He has a lot of gas along with the diarrhea trouble.
I hope at least some of that made sense. I'm trying to figure out where to start with helping him. I don't know whether to try to get him to get tested, try diet first or what. *sigh* For the record, I don't trust doctors much. They seem to never be able to figure anything out and then you wasted time and money. If that is the best way to go though, we'll do it.
Thanks for your time!
I'm going to try to give an overview of what is going on. This isn't all of it, but all I could get from him last night as we were talking. If anything isn't clear, just ask and I can ask him about it.

First off, his mother has ulcerative colitis. Her side of the family has quite a bit of autoimmune stuff diagnosed. Not sure how needed that info is, but I wanted to include it just incase.

Not sure where to start with his symptoms, so I'll just start listing them.
Diarrhea is almost "normal" for him. It is quite often that he has to run to the bathroom. He said it was better for a few months, but the past two weeks has been worse.
He can not eat before 9 in the morning (he is at work at 7am). If he does he gets bad stomach cramps. The only thing he has had luck eating first thing is pizza, but he usually just skips.
He has to go to the bathroom within 15 mins or so after eating. No matter what it is.
He has to quickly get to the bathroom every time he eats oatmeal (as a cereal or in cookies, etc)
He used to have terrible trouble after eating spaghetti, but now that he eats smaller portions, he doesn't have that trouble.
We've tried to pay attention and really can't find what sets him off. Oatmeal is the only thing he knows for sure will send him to the bathroom so quickly. He feels it's more like it takes up room and forces stuff out rather than "causing trouble" (as he put it). He also said that he knows he eats too fast (habit from work). He has a lot of gas along with the diarrhea trouble.
I hope at least some of that made sense. I'm trying to figure out where to start with helping him. I don't know whether to try to get him to get tested, try diet first or what. *sigh* For the record, I don't trust doctors much. They seem to never be able to figure anything out and then you wasted time and money. If that is the best way to go though, we'll do it.
Thanks for your time!
