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Hello!<br><br>
I had supply issues for number one. I am a long-term planner and I am thinking about number two and how I will try to have a better supply.<br><br>
So this thread pertains to this- If I achieve my goal, and get to EBF child 2, how will that be different from child 1? Will child 1 BEING child 1 make up for what we missed out on? Will I be more bonded to child 2?<br><br>
So much didn't get to go how I wanted with her birth, and then BFing didn't go well (it was horrible- she was awesome, but I just wasn't producing. I felt like I failed her so bad)... I learned so much with her, and I know number 2 will be a lot easier because of it. But that kind of makes me feel mad on DDs behalf- it isn't fair that she missed out, that WE missed out.<br><br>
Maybe I am being silly, maybe that feeling of wanting justice for her, or wanting whats best, of being worried- maybe that's all proof that her and I are golden.... but I would like to hear from some experianced mamas.<br><br>
How did supply getting better effect your relationship with your kids?
I had supply issues for number one. I am a long-term planner and I am thinking about number two and how I will try to have a better supply.<br><br>
So this thread pertains to this- If I achieve my goal, and get to EBF child 2, how will that be different from child 1? Will child 1 BEING child 1 make up for what we missed out on? Will I be more bonded to child 2?<br><br>
So much didn't get to go how I wanted with her birth, and then BFing didn't go well (it was horrible- she was awesome, but I just wasn't producing. I felt like I failed her so bad)... I learned so much with her, and I know number 2 will be a lot easier because of it. But that kind of makes me feel mad on DDs behalf- it isn't fair that she missed out, that WE missed out.<br><br>
Maybe I am being silly, maybe that feeling of wanting justice for her, or wanting whats best, of being worried- maybe that's all proof that her and I are golden.... but I would like to hear from some experianced mamas.<br><br>
How did supply getting better effect your relationship with your kids?