[KirstenMary]

I am a member of other parenting boards in which the non-BFing mommies have very good reasons for not BFing. And the reason they feel they need to justify every action is because mamas like us judge them unfairly.

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Originally Posted by ArlyShellandKai Do any of you ever lurk or belong to other parenting boards that seem to be majority of non Bfing families that tend to think they need to justify there every action ( and usually they are very very selfish reasons) and knock Bfing saying its not as good as some say.. guess i need to stop lurking :LOL Michele

 

[KirstenMary]

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Originally Posted by Shaunam My biggest peeve is when moms who CHOOSE to ff, get defensive when someone brings up the benefits of breastfeeding.

I agree with you. I have, however, known mamas who will say that thay made the choice to FF when they were actually physically unable to BF. For many mamas, being unable to BF feels like a major failure.