I am soo sad/mad and I don't know what to do. My 10yr old ds used to be a very honest child about everything. Even when he had done wrong he would tell the truth. This past year he has begun lying about EVERYTHING! He lies about everything from important to just plain stupid and I am at the end of my rope. I feel very disrespected and I feel as though he thinks dh and I are stupid. I just finished having a fight with ds about whether or not he showered and washed his hair. He was in the bathroom for under 1 min, he came to me in dirty clothes and completely dry hair(he has very thick hair and usually needs to blowdry it after a shower and it will usually still be wet after that cause he sucks at blowdrying his hair), his hair even smelled awful. I asked him if he showered,he said yes, I asked him if he remembered to wash his hair, he said yes, I asked him why his hair was completly dry, he said it must have dried(he had shut off the water under 1 min before he came upstairs. I suspect that he just turned on the shower left it for 1 min and turned it off without getting in. his towel was also bone dry) But regardless of what happened I was only asking him if he really washed his hair and he keeps saying he did. I agve him every opportunity to tell the truth and he kept lying. I realize I probably sound insane, and that it is really not that imporant whether or not he showered/washed his hair or not but I am sick of being lied too!! At least once every week, usually more though, we have an argument over him lying about something and he will not admit to the truth even after he is repeatedly caught in a lie. I just feel like this incident is the last straw for me. I just don't know what to do anymore and I even dread having to talk to my son b/c he never tells the truth about anything and it always ends in an argument. I cannot trust my son to tell me the truth about anything anymore and it is so depressing to me I want to cry.