[CerridwenLorelei]

long time married but not quite hetero all the way lol
but my bf is male and has been my bf for 8 yrs longer than I have even known dh ...
we spend time running around together when he is in town and later when dh is off work we all go do stuff..so I think the pp that said invite dh along may have the nail on the head..

 

[CerridwenLorelei]

this at all "BTW, not 100% hetero here, wither, just thought I'd mention it so I didn't get abunch of post about assuming everyone is hetero"

I just put that in my post because I have been told in the past (not here) that I can't have a hetero viewpoint so wanted to respond but preface that I may not be the full requirement for the perspective you were looking for