I came to MX in Dec 07 and stayed for 4 months and came back to the US for 3 months...fiance is mexican and has built on to his parents house over the years. He has stayed here since 12-7. He is not legally allowed in the US at this time. So i've sent about all my household goods and clothes to MX. Well we still have a house in NC that is for sale and is not selling. Been on the market for 1 years. Anyways, i'm having a hard time adjusting to life here. I'm not sure if it's this town Cd. Valles SLP. There is nothing to do here, american food is very hard to find. I dont have alot of the american things i'm used to. The oven does not work...share a kitchen with fiance's parents and brother. Have our own upstairs and bathroom. Have AC..thank goodness. Anyways, No english speaking people near at all. I do not speak spanish and really dont have a desire to at this point. Fiance has a internet cafe/dvd rental business here. It does good for this area. Considering we dont pay rent for housing...it's almost impossible to find another area...town...state to live in. I feel stuck here. How are other mama's adjusting to life here. It's so very different...no hot water...unless we get a new propane tank and turn on the element 30 min before a shower then as soon as shower is done go turn off element to make sure pipes dont burst. Other than showers...no hot water running anywhere. No dryer...washing machine that doesnt get clothes clean....oh i can go on and on. I dont want to sound to whinney..but i'm having a hard time here. What do i do?