My mom got me a traditional chinese carrier - Mei Tai (the red ones with a phoenix/dragon embroidery on the back) from HongKong 2 years ago for dd#1. I didn't know anything about those carriers and dd#1 was already 30+lbs, so I just kept it in the baby clothes storage bin. Anyways, I got it out again and tried it on with dd#2 (2 month old). I've read some of the instructions online, but I just can't get the hang of it. I was trying to do a tummy to tummy, but the "rectangular piece/seat" is too short to support dd#2's head. Can someone tell me how long their ABC is? Also the straps are too short to wrap around my body twice (I'm not big). Anyways, just a bit confused about this carrier, but would definitely like some help.