My dear sweet woman.....
I have terrible migraines as well, but thank God only 2 or 3 since baby has been born in May.
Have they offered you feroenol? I was given that to take home from the hospital because I had a migraine while still in the hospital with baby girl. None of these are great options as they treat the symptoms and not the cause of the migraine. However, the feornol did help me and makes me less groggy than the percocet. They did give me percocet as well though, becuase I had an unplanned C-section.
Before I was pregnant I went to a pain management clinic to help my migraines which has helped a lot. Additionally I was receiving regular massage at the height of my migraine trouble. Cranio-Sacral therapy combined with Massage really REALLY helped me a lot. Massage therapy can be expensive, but if you are not able to function and you are already spending $$ on meds that aren't working, it is worth a shot.
In addition, I found that getting snuggled in bed with Ice on the top of my head and on the back of my neck seemed to help....staying warm while applying ice in ziplock bags is helpful.
Do you have help with your daughter? Can someone help you when you are really in pain? I know how painful migraines are....During my labor with my daughter I really thought about the fact that, for me, labor was less painful than some migraines that I have had.
If you want to find a cranio-sacral practitioner you can google the upledger institute and find local practitioners there...I went to someone who combined massage and cranio work which truly truly changed my life and helped me live with significantly less pain.
hang in there