I know I am not alone with this, but I just wanted to vent and know that I am not alone. I love my MIL, she's great and really helpful. Unfortunately, she gets nervous when my dd just sneezes or coughs. There are 3 grandchildren (2 from her daughter and 1 from her son...our baby). Anyway, the 2 other girls live in Germany and travel all throughout. They are constantly sick. So, their mom is big on taking them to the doctor, giving them their antibiotics, and making sure they are A-okay. I, on the other-hand, am very different. I hate antibiotics and refuse to take them. I also refuse to vaccine my baby!!! So, she told me the other day..."when are you going to take Violetta to her next appointment?" and I replied, "not sure, she's due for her 12 month WBV, but I don't know if I should go". Her reply "she needs to go...make sure she is okay and she needs to get the important vaccines". Turns out she was so obsessed with the health of my husband and SIL when they were babies, that she would ask the doctor to do blood-work on them at every visit!!! She also thinks I need to add olive oil to all the foods I give dd because she isn't a fat baby like the typical baby. It makes me crazy really because I am trying to do the best that I can and I always feel like I am failing in some way whenever she's around. Whether it's the fact that I won't vaccinate or don't rush to the doctor when she has a fever (which only happened once thank you very much)! Anyone else know what I mean?