this may be a stupid question but how would you know if you definately had miscarried? I mean without having an ultrasound or anything. i am not scheduled to meet with my midwife for another two weeks. when i called her the other day to let her know i was bleeding she said to wait and see how things went. It has been about six days and the bleed has stopped. Not knowing is sort of driving me insane...but i was putting off going to the emergency room for an ultrasound.