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Ive been wanting to join a site and post for days, but Im not sure I fit in so well, I wasnt trying to conceive, but I did. Here's my story.<br>
I started bleeding nearly three weeks ago to the day. I thought It was my period, about six days late but there's nothing unusual there, it was only when I had been bleeding for thirteen days that I decided to have a google session, as soon as I typed in 'bleeding for 13 day's" loads of posts came up about miscarriage, and I decided to take a pregnancy test, it was positive. I rang the Nhs help line, they said it was normal in early pregnancy.. I decided to go to the hospital, they gave me a test, and a scan, which showed nothing, I was 7 weeks and 2 days by my LMP, they decided to do a scan because of the bleeding, and found nothing. I was diagnosed as 'early pregnancy failure' or a blighted ovum, and they took blood to see if my levels of hcg would drop or rise in 48 hours, they were 3300, and 48 hours later they were 3100, after what they told me I wasn't expecting a viable pregnancy, I know I wasn't planning it, but I can't wait to start a family, it just wasn't the right time to plan, but none the less I would have been exstatic to be having a baby.. I don't know what to think, I have been bleeding for nearly three weeks now, tests are still positive and they took more blood today to check my levels again, I'm waiting for the call right now. I know I'm going to loose my baby, if I haven't already.. They say they might give me another scan depending on my results today.. They're worried about it being ectopic, but ice experienced no pain yet.. I am 7 weeks and 6 days.. I just want it to be over now, so I can grieve the loss of something I didn't realise I wanted so badly.. Some words of comfort or just your thoughts would be appreciated, I'm not holding out on a miracle.. Anybody? I dint know what to do with myself.. Sorry for the long post x
 

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Oh sweetie. Lots and lots of hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss
 

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I have no advice or experience but please know you are in my thoughts and I am feeling for you. No matter what happens take great care with yourself and give your mind and body time to rest and heal.<br>
I am so very sorry<br>
Xxxxxxxx
 
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