I'm having trouble with weaning my 21 month ds. I just feel so mean! I have always planned to do child led weaning, but I'm feeling done... he isn't. My nipples are sore, he tends to clench when he is done, so to say the least it isn't pleasant. Not only that, but nights are driving me nuts! He wants to nurse several times at night, and I don't like sleeping on my side all night... it hurts after a whileMy problem is, I feel horrible trying to go cold turkey. So I was planning to gradually wean. Part of me wants to continue nursing, but part of me also wants to quit. HELP! Any suggestions or tips are SO welcome!!