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i am a newly separated(well since february) mama of three. i have a 5 yr old, 3 yr old, and a 9 mo old. well, my baby is so active, always putting everything in her mouth, climbing stairs, and just basically doing what healthy 9 mo olds do, and i feel like there is not enough of me to go around. when im not chasing her, nursing her, or putting her to bed, i am making food cleaning up after making food, or cleaning the floors to make sure there is nothing for her to choke on. i feel like whenever my son or daughter asks me to play with them the answer is no i have to do this or that. if we go out to the park, it is very difficult to run around and play, while carrying my big girl(22lbs) i get so tired!. it is so frustrating too because after i had her i was elated because i had expected it to be alot harder, having three kids. it wasnt! taking care of her was a breeze! now im just so overwhelmed. there is no balance. i dont know how to find it but in the meantime we are all suffering
