yeah, and if he does, he will, right?
and i gotta say, just as some encouragement, that i really didn't think he would come around. really. hoped, but couldn't believe, based on his attitude and actions.. we were both really stuck in our own dramas that were perpetuated by being around eachother.. having that space brought the focus back on ourselves. now i don't put up with his shit, and we can discuss parenting related stuff in a healthy, objective way, and are more respectful of one another, having a greater perspective on our 'issues', thanks to that space..