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I have this online mama friend who I have corresponded with for almost a year via email, messaging, etc and I pretty much got stabbed in the back by her! I am so in shock! We have been fairly good friends, talking on a daily basis, sharing pics of our dc, sending each other items that would work well for the other persons kids, etc. I don't want to get too much into the specifics, but I had vented to her about another friend (who we will call C) who said something to me in passing that was hurtful. I really didn't think it was a big deal, but since I'm hormonal and pregnant it did probably upset me more than it should have. So anyway, I talked to my online friend about the minor hurtful thing that C said, because I thought we had the type of friendship where we could confide stuff like that. Well I knew that my online friend and C sometimes chatted via email since we are all part of a big group of mothers with babies the same age. Well it turns out that she told everything I said to C (along with quite a bit of embellishment it sounds like) and now I've been yelled at by a bunch of the people in this group now!<br>
Somehow I went from being the one who had my feelings hurt to being some 'a horrible lying witch' <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/mecry.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="crying"> I know I probably should have just kept what I thought inside my own head, but I didn't what I said was that big of a deal at the time <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/guilty.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="guilty"> I probably shouldn't care about it since this all has to do with a bunch of people I don't know IRL, but after a year of corresponding I felt like I DID know them! I'm really a nice person I swear! I don't badmouth people!<br><br>
I have to say though, I'm not the first person to have been ridiculed in this group before, so I guess everyone really enjoys their drama <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: I'm so hurt by being made to be everyone's drama fix for the month. I suppose I'm better off without dealing with people like them, I'm just still in such shock! I'm definitely going to keep to myself online from now on I guess! Thanks if you read this far and actually understood half of what I said.
Somehow I went from being the one who had my feelings hurt to being some 'a horrible lying witch' <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/mecry.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="crying"> I know I probably should have just kept what I thought inside my own head, but I didn't what I said was that big of a deal at the time <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/guilty.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="guilty"> I probably shouldn't care about it since this all has to do with a bunch of people I don't know IRL, but after a year of corresponding I felt like I DID know them! I'm really a nice person I swear! I don't badmouth people!<br><br>
I have to say though, I'm not the first person to have been ridiculed in this group before, so I guess everyone really enjoys their drama <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: I'm so hurt by being made to be everyone's drama fix for the month. I suppose I'm better off without dealing with people like them, I'm just still in such shock! I'm definitely going to keep to myself online from now on I guess! Thanks if you read this far and actually understood half of what I said.
