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"My grandkids are cuter than yours"

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This was on a license plate frame I saw today. What a disgusting way for this woman to show her "pride" in her grandkids, by tearing others' down.
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I wonder how her kids feel about her displaying that -- I would be horrified if my mother wanted to drive around with such a message on her car.
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I agree. I hate the competition in beauty and kids behaviors, ect.

Someone at church came up to me and gushed about how her husband thinks my daughter is the most beautiful girl in the church, she is gorgeous, blah blah blah. Thanks, that is so ooooooo nice. BUT, my GOOD, probably BEST friend is sitting right next to me, who has a DD 6 weeks younger! Ummm, how do you think that makes her feel!!!! I know I would be Hurt!
Yeah, cause that's all kids are good for is how they look :puke

I feel sorry for her grandkids that they have a grandma who is so superficial
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Originally Posted by Lovemy3babies View Post
BUT, my GOOD, probably BEST friend is sitting right next to me, who has a DD 6 weeks younger! Ummm, how do you think that makes her feel!!!! I know I would be Hurt!
Maybe, maybe not. My mom had a good friend who told her, when I was about 18 months old - so her ds was a year - that I was, hands down, the cutest baby she'd ever seen. So...maybe your dd is just really, really cute?

I'm not really bothered by bumper stickers like in the OP, but I do wish we, as a society, didn't jump to showing pride by putting down others so often. There are better ways.
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Originally Posted by Lovemy3babies View Post
BUT, my GOOD, probably BEST friend is sitting right next to me, who has a DD 6 weeks younger!
That was insensitive, but I could see how someone could just make a thoughtless remark like that by mistake, with no ill intent.

But actually saying "cuter than," and making the decision to buy this item and take the time to put it on your car -- that's a whole other thing, IMO.
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Well I'm all for raising non shallow kids, but it wouldn't be much of an improvement if the license frame said:

"My grandkids are way more well behaved than yours are!"

"My grandkids are smarter than yours!"

"My grandkids breastfed longer than yours!"

I'm one of those people that thinks most bumper stickers/license frames are kinda dumb anyway- no one actually cares if you love Def Lepard, really.
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Originally Posted by Porcelain Interior View Post
I'm one of those people that thinks most bumper stickers/license frames are kinda dumb anyway- no one actually cares if you love Def Lepard, really.

Ha -- me too.
I look at some and think, "Really? That's the ONE thing you want everyone who passes you on the road to know about you? Oooookay..."
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I wouldn't have even given it a second thought.
It's okay to have a sense of humor. Not everything is meant to be taken seriously. Sometimes it's good to laugh.
I don't see what the big deal is
: At least the grandma is into her grandkids. thats more than some of us can say.
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I believe it is meant to imply that her grandkids are the cutest to her. It is like the world's best whatever awards.
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Originally Posted by Porcelain Interior View Post

"My grandkids breastfed longer than yours!"
Sorry . . . that really got my funny bone.

My grandkids are cuter than yours, that's kind of goofy I must say. Here's a shirt, actually a onesie I saw the other day, "My Mommy is Hotter Than Your Mommy."
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Originally Posted by rhiandmoi View Post
I believe it is meant to imply that her grandkids are the cutest to her. It is like the world's best whatever awards.
No, I don't think that's an apt comparison. The equivalent would be if someone had an "I'm a better mom than you" mug instead of a "World's best mom" mug.

If the license plate frame had said, "Grandma to the world's cutest grandkids" I wouldn't have even thought about it.
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Originally Posted by limabean View Post
No, I don't think that's an apt comparison. The equivalent would be if someone had an "I'm a better mom than you" mug instead of a "World's best mom" mug.

If the license plate frame had said, "Grandma to the world's cutest grandkids" I wouldn't have even thought about it.
I don't really know how to say this gently, so let me apologize in advance.

I think you are taking a bumper sticker waaaaaay to seriously. Yes, I agree it is stupid but I personally think bumper stickers are stupid anyway.
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Originally Posted by aprons_and_acorns View Post
Sorry . . . that really got my funny bone.

My grandkids are cuter than yours, that's kind of goofy I must say. Here's a shirt, actually a onesie I saw the other day, "My Mommy is Hotter Than Your Mommy."


I totally have that onesie, and one that says "My Daddy is Cooler Than Your Daddy", I think they're funny.
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Dudettes, take a chill pill. It's a silly thing that someone put on their car to have a happy braggy thought about their grandkids. They didn't say, "Your grandkids are ugly."

Oy.
I used to be irked by them, but now I've come to realize that I think it's all done for fun, and comes from a positive place. I mean I still think it's a strange thing to say, but I don't let it bother me.
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Originally Posted by pauletoy View Post
I don't really know how to say this gently, so let me apologize in advance.

I think you are taking a bumper sticker waaaaaay to seriously. Yes, I agree it is stupid but I personally think bumper stickers are stupid anyway.

I (respectfully) disagree. Language is powerful, and so much crap has become commonplace that I think as a society we've become desensitized to some really harmful stuff.

Not that I would lose sleep over this issue, but change has to start somewhere, right? I would bet that if we all really started paying attention, we would be shocked at the number of similarly tasteless (?) messages we see on a daily basis, don't even notice, yet absorb like sponges.
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Originally Posted by Liquesce View Post
I would assume it was tongue in cheek.
THis my thought (assuming I had grankids) would be ARE NOT mine are!
totally kidding of course.

Deanna
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