[ghettomama]

I posted awhile back about my situation. I am recently seperated and found out I was pregnant by my friend that consoled me after the breakup. I was so nervous but I finally told my husband and the father of the baby about it 2 days ago. Today I went in for an ultrasound and the baby has no heartbeat. I am 12 weeks along and I have to have a d & c on monday. I am in shock and confused, all alone and have to continue to parent my 4 kids as if everything was fine.This is the hardest thing ever.

 

[thismama]

I am so sorry mama.

 

[vannienicole]

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[punkrockmommy]

I sent you a private message, but i also just wanted to tell you that i am sorry for your loss. I have been through the same thing right before i found out the sex of my baby. I wanted to you to know that there are other options besides a D&C. I sent you, the info in the message. I hope that you have some one there to support you. Take care of yourself.

 

[beansavi]

Yes, remember you are blessed, loved, wonderful, and that there are many people here who care. We are here for you and many of us have suffered a loss like yours and can truly understand what you are going through.

Sincerely,
Bean

 

[Jster]

so sorry about your loss, and about all the agony of anticipating, sharing, and then feeling that loss around you as well. I hope you are getting some support from friends and family!

 

[ipfree]

so sorry about you loss ... i hope you find support here

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[stirringleaf]

just wanted to say i care too. i am very sorry about your loss and your hardship and i know for a fact many mamas will talk to you here and offer you as much support as they can.

 

[trinity6232000]

 

[BelovedK]

I'm so sorry

 

[pranamama]

hugs

 

[MsChatsAlot]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been there too and know it is a very emotional time.

Offering you my support.

Also, please note there is a pregnancy loss forum here if you want to talk with other women going through similar experiences.

 

[juliansmom]

hugs...I am sorry for your loss.

 

[woo27ks]

I'm sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself. Take care -

 

[**guest**]

You must be filled with so many emotions/thoughts. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it must be difficult to do so but please try to be gentle with yourself. Hugs to you, mama.

 

[NotTheOnlyOne]

 

[kokonutmama]

I'm sorry.

 

[green]

I am very sorry. I had read your earlier post and imagined it a very difficult situation.

I will be thinking of you and please take care of yourself.

 

[YinYang]

I'm so sorry mama, I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through. Many thoughts are being sent your way.... So sorry...

 

[yaM yaM]

(((Big hugs))) to you, sweetie.