My sis and I have very different views when it comes to childbirth. She is a respiratory therapist in a hospital so obviously, her whole career is centered around medical interventions. She has had 4 very medically-managed pregnancies/births. We have never really gotten into a deep debate about our views on birth. Without actually saying so, we have just agreed to disagree.
I had a birth-center-turned-hospital birth that was fairly intervention-free (ya know, for being in a hospital
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). It was an unmedicted, episiotomy-free, forceps/vacuum extractor-free, vaginal birth. I did end up needing IV fluids (I became dehydrated and our state law forbids licensed midwives to administers IVs
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: ) and I had a nasal canula w/ oxygen.....but other than that (
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), it was all natural.
After my sister read my birth story, this is what she wrote to me:
"Wow, you're my hero!!
Isn't it funny how you have to wait a while before you can clearly remember the events of childbirth? Trying to replay it in your head too soon after the event is way too confusing!
Sis, you are the reason for me wanting to consider a natural birth if I do another surrogacy. After this last epidural not working, and my back STILL feeling sore in that spot 6 weeks later....I'm just not sure I want to keep having huge needles stuck into my spine (how many epidurals can one actually have in their lifetime before something bad happens??)
I'm so proud of you for bringing Scout into this world UNmedicated, and for doing sooooo much research to prepare for it. Thank you for opening my eyes to a new way of doing something that I have done the same way....4 times now (I think it's time for a change!)
I love you!!!!"
Just thought I'd share that. Even if it seems like your friends and family may be set in their ways and not open to a more natural way of doing things, ya never know....they may be soaking up info from you and gaining knowledge from your experience.
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I had a birth-center-turned-hospital birth that was fairly intervention-free (ya know, for being in a hospital
After my sister read my birth story, this is what she wrote to me:
"Wow, you're my hero!!
Isn't it funny how you have to wait a while before you can clearly remember the events of childbirth? Trying to replay it in your head too soon after the event is way too confusing!
Sis, you are the reason for me wanting to consider a natural birth if I do another surrogacy. After this last epidural not working, and my back STILL feeling sore in that spot 6 weeks later....I'm just not sure I want to keep having huge needles stuck into my spine (how many epidurals can one actually have in their lifetime before something bad happens??)
I'm so proud of you for bringing Scout into this world UNmedicated, and for doing sooooo much research to prepare for it. Thank you for opening my eyes to a new way of doing something that I have done the same way....4 times now (I think it's time for a change!)
I love you!!!!"
Just thought I'd share that. Even if it seems like your friends and family may be set in their ways and not open to a more natural way of doing things, ya never know....they may be soaking up info from you and gaining knowledge from your experience.
